Sam Dylan Finch @samdylanfinch
Queer writer. ✍🏻 Unlearning shame & reclaiming self. 🍃 He/they samdylanfinch.com Seattle, WA Joined October 2014-
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10 things you're actually "saying" when you ignore someone's pronouns ❤️ @samdylanfinch ❤️
Me watching a Queen performance: “Is that JoJo Siwa, creator of Gay Pop™️, on the drums”
Exploring what it feels like to share my joy, even if it’s just for me. 💐 These are a few of my favorite things this month, peppered with reflections, quotes, and hopes. fromabraveshore.com/2024/04/10/apr…
“It is never too much to ask others to love you well.” helloalma.com/blog/adult-chi…
I think I may need to print this out and put it by my desk.
It is so, so meaningful to me that after a decade of public writing AROUND my trauma, I’m now witnessing the power of finally telling the truth. So grateful to Grayson and to everyone who has already reached out about this essay. I am not alone; we are not alone.
It is so, so meaningful to me that after a decade of public writing AROUND my trauma, I’m now witnessing the power of finally telling the truth. So grateful to Grayson and to everyone who has already reached out about this essay. I am not alone; we are not alone.
Content notes: suicidal ideation and attempts, self-harm, abuse, transphobia, and complex trauma, as experienced by a child through adulthood Honoring Us All: Healing After Adult Child Estrangement by @samdylanfinch helloalma.com/blog/adult-chi…
"Asking someone to love you righteously, unconditionally, and intentionally is a beautiful invitation inward. And their readiness to do so — or their decision not to — was never your burden to carry."
"Recovery is about creating a life so liberated, connected, and supported that the ED isn’t extinguished or annihilated, but instead, gently released from its protective role." @samdylanfinch
"Recovery is about creating a life so liberated, connected, and supported that the ED isn’t extinguished or annihilated, but instead, gently released from its protective role." @samdylanfinch
“The more hostile I became toward my eating disorder, the more frustrated I became with myself when I engaged with it; the more I framed my ED as an enemy, the more shame I felt for ‘conspiring’ with it.” helloalma.com/blog/not-fight…
This is a thread that is offering the "SparkNotes" version of this article, as the original is ~8000 words, which I recognize that not everyone has the capacity to read. 🧵 (I still recommend bookmarking it and digesting it at your own pace if you feel up for it, though!)
This is a thread that is offering the "SparkNotes" version of this article, as the original is ~8000 words, which I recognize that not everyone has the capacity to read. 🧵 (I still recommend bookmarking it and digesting it at your own pace if you feel up for it, though!)
"I don't think we can have a responsible conversation about manipulation and people-pleasing without putting it in the context of power dynamics [and] trauma." Is People-Pleasing ‘Manipulation’? How Some Content Creators Have Lost the Plot helloalma.com/blog/people-pl…
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Tales of Ba Sing Se, right? Like it’s rare that there’s an objectively correct question to a creative prompt but like, let’s be real.
What’s your favourite episode of a TV show that is what others might call filler. There’s a prompt
@samdylanfinch I’m going to send it to my therapist to save a dozen sessions or so of explaining my background. I’m not trans, but just about everything else is so familiar I could have written it myself (but not with half as much grace and kindness).
I’m sobbing at this. I needed this journey of grief, rage, acceptance, and love of self. I only wish there were fewer of us who did need to hear something like this.
“It is never too much to ask others to love you well.” helloalma.com/blog/adult-chi…
This article was so intense and also intensely vital to read for far more of us than many realize. I'm so grateful for the work Sam is doing to share his experiences and highlight not only trauma but the healing process as well.
Every time I have felt unlovable because of this trauma I carry, I am shown otherwise -- by my partner and their mom, our dogs, my close friends, and so many more. The way they push me to sit with and love myself is something I can't put into words.
"Asking someone to love you righteously, unconditionally, and intentionally is a beautiful invitation inward. And their readiness to do so — or their decision not to — was never your burden to carry."
I think I may need to print this out and put it by my desk.
There is also so much peace for me in knowing that I am doing things my mother cannot do, that perhaps me being the trans, queer, disabled sex educator, DEIA nerd, and medical researcher I am -- and being happy -- can help balance out the harm she's caused.
I realized I was not cis in the months following cutting contact with my mother. She will never know how fucking badass I am or how hard it is to still choose authenticity over safety.
It will be 10 years on May 4th since I last spoke to my mother, and it took me a long time to not crave accountability -- Because I know I'll never get it.
It took a long time to believe me. I couldn't let mother ruin my relationships and my life, especially because I literally could not live if I continued that relationship.
It was always how my sister and I 'ruined' every holiday, how we disrupted her peace -- especially if we brought up how mother did XYZ the previous year before. The more I stood out, the worse it got.
Content note: child abuse, enmeshment I know a lot of the traumas my mother endured, but only because I was her main source of emotional support from the time I was an infant on. The way she enmeshed me made it incredibly hard to not excuse her behaviors because of the trauma.
Imagine a photo of me here, smiling like Hide The Pain Harold
"It was how I was trained from birth to hide my pain and silence myself." People seem to wonder how I'm either amazing at setting boundaries or don't speak up about my needs. It's because of this exact issue. That ingrained & obsequious obedience is hell to undo.
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