Claire Harrison @thehappyladyuk
Enabling Parents Young People & Children to #feeldifferent 1 family @ a time... The Happy Lady® Integrative Therapist MBACP SSP Practitioner Kiwi & Londoner thehappylady.uk London Joined October 2012-
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When grief comes, its heaviness will feel like your new normal. It’s not. It represents an invitation you’ve offered from being open to truth. Respect it. Be curious about it. Find out what needs to be felt so the grief dissolves and is replaced with peace. You deserve that.
Do children learn that they have choices when they are punished for making the wrong ones? No, and here’s why. I’ve been told by several people recently that immediate punishment with no excuses (e.g being sent to isolation) shows children they have choices. Their logic, it…
Smiling is a Social Skill #keepsmiling #smile
When our young people are communicating stressed behaviour, we must regulate, relate, and reason in that sequence. We must not go straight for the cortex. Pupils cannot reason when their emotions are not regulated. Basic neuroscience. 🧠🌱
Want to have a better relationship, with anyone? Learn to listen. If you feel defensive or want to interrupt, just breathe. Work on regulating your emotions. This is how you build trust. When someone goes to you and they're met with openness and curiosity, the relationship…
Love isn't blind. Love is learned from childhood. Who we get attached to is no accident. It's a re-enactment. Sometimes, we get attached to people who mirror our earliest experiences of not getting our emotional needs met.
Here's what it's like to grow up with emotionally mature parents:
Here's the thing: no one outside of you has to agree that something "should" have been hurtful, for you to have been hurt by it. Turns out OUR experience of pain exists with or without "their" validation. Sometimes it's better to save our breath than try to convince "them."
Agreeing to things to avoid conflict and keep the peace is a trauma response that starts a war inside yourself. Heal so you start speaking your mind and stop feeling like there will be negative consequences for expressing how you feel because you're used to being invalidated.
Relationship sabotage happens when we've never learned to trust. 6 Ways People Sabotage Relationships:
Awesome thread 🧵 @Theholisticpsyc #feeling & #healing relational wounds of the past in the here & now 🙏♥️🦋
Awesome thread 🧵 @Theholisticpsyc #feeling & #healing relational wounds of the past in the here & now 🙏♥️🦋
Blog: "What seems to be “common sense” for many people when it comes to eating and exercise often gets turned on its head when trauma, especially sexual trauma, is in the mix." useyourdamnskills.com/2023/07/18/tra…
Our trauma conditioning WILL fight us when we try to make different choices. It WANTS us going w/ what feels familiar-- no matter how sh*tty "familiar" is. Easy does it. Remember: we reprogram ourselves in small, steady, consistent increments. That's how you're gonna win.
The reason people in a toxic family won’t heal is because they have one another & bond over their denial. They hide in each other’s shadows. The reason the cycle breaker chooses to heal is because those people have never supported them & healing is the only lifeline they have.
This brilliant article explains how difficult it is to break a #traumabond with an abusive parent, even as an adult. The abusive parent & their #enabler play the victim & pretend they have no idea why their child has walked away. #narcissism #cyclebreaker medium.com/inkmend/why-i-…
“Yesterday I was visiting my son's school. I see a bright colored bench in the yard. I asked if this was the only place to sit. - And he said to me, ′′ No, that's the bench of friends. When someone is lonely or can't find a play partner, they'll sit there and others invite them…
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SUNAK: "I will never dismiss or downplay the illnesses people have." SUNAK (53 seconds later): Rising numbers with depression and anxiety are down to an "over-medicalising everyday challenges". 🤔~AA
RCPsych President @DrLadeSmith responds to PM's announcement on reform of the fit note process "If the Prime Minister is serious about reducing the number of people out of work for mental health problems he must tackle the mental illness crisis. Addressing the causes, while also…
We’re extremely disappointed with Sunak’s harmful and inaccurate comments on mental health and work. Read our response to Sunak’s call to end ‘sick note culture’ ➡️ orlo.uk/XBJLx
When someone is brave enough to tell you how much they are hurting, it is rare they’re looking for advice. Validation? Yes. Comfort? Yes. Safety? Yes. Advice? No. Or at best, rarely.
When grief comes, its heaviness will feel like your new normal. It’s not. It represents an invitation you’ve offered from being open to truth. Respect it. Be curious about it. Find out what needs to be felt so the grief dissolves and is replaced with peace. You deserve that.
A dream of a renovation, this 1960s Geoffrey Bateman midcentury modern house in Loughton, Essex, which was designed by the architect for his own use, is now on the market. bit.ly/4aXinxj
Don't demand of yourself that you be less sad or anxious. Communicate to yourself that you're acceptable & lovable exactly as you are, & you'll sit w/ this sadness or anxiety for exactly as long as you need to. Communicate to yourself that you will not abandon yourself. Period.
Look who paid me a surprise visit all the way from Zurich, Switzerland for my book launching in Croydon Town Hall in South London, UK. None other than my twin bro Dr Mo! So glad you could make it bro! @HankirMohammed Breakthrough is available to order amzn.eu/d/1PhG3Vl
Palestinian children matter as much as Israeli children.
Israeli Ambassador to the UK: "Just imagine how things would have looked... this huge missile, think about it falling in the middle of a city like Jerusalem.. look how populated it is. Just think about it hitting neighbourhoods & people & children" Just imagine.
Relational practice in action
Just met a young man who took us up on the offer of free dry cleaning for his interview clothes…and got the job!
Hi everyone, I hope you are all well. So the clock has struck 12am which officially makes it publication day of my book, ‘Breakthrough. A Story of Hope, Resilience and Mental Health Recovery.’ I can’t deny it, I have been counting down the days. This is a big deal for me. There…
So I’m back in England & I just opened a package containing the latest copies of my book! I’m super excited! I can’t deny it, I’m really emotional. It hasn’t been easy. Leaving my parents behind in Lebanon when I was 17 & coming to England. Working 70 hours a week to survive.…
I cannot, in good conscience, remain silent. We must not remain silent. When we see such bigotry, Islamophobia, racism & hatred we must call it out. Rachel Riley must be held accountable for these vile & divisive comments.
Yes, I'm a nice person. No, that doesn't mean I will allow you to walk all over me.
Smiling is a Social Skill #keepsmiling #smile
Why does cancer evoke so much talk of conflict? Ruby was a lover not a fighter. A dyed in the wool pacifist who avoided all forms of conflict. She was the child in the kindergarten playground trying to broker a peace-deal between friends who had fallen out. 🧵1/n
I identify as a ‘Wounded Healer’. I had to work extremely hard to get into a competitive training programme in academic psychiatry in London, UK & I was immensely fortunate to acquire specialist knowledge in mental health. I now work as a Consultant Psychiatrist providing care to…
What has happened to humanity?
In Gaza, "every person, the first thing they want to tell me in English or Arabic is 'We need food,’" says @UNICEF spokesperson @1james_elder. "They are saying that because their assumption is the world doesn’t know, because how would this be allowed to happen if the world knew?"