Healing After The Narcissist @AfterTheNarc
To Break The Story of Narcissistic Abuse We Need To Break The Silence! 🖤 IG:@HealingAfterTheNarcissist instagram.com/healingafterth… Joined May 2019-
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Narcissistic Abuse is like a disease that consumes every part of you; you feel permanently poisoned.
Coincidence means only a connection that's not seen. Roots meet underground... 🖤 #NarcissisticAbuse
Have you ever had the opportunity to speak to the narcissist’s ex, the victim who came before you or after you and compared your stories to one another of the abuse endured by the narcissist?
Think back when you first began dating the narcissist, did they ever hint to you in any way that they have a mental illness by open up quickly, providing you too much information? Ex: childhood trauma, sexual abuse, statements about their parents or “something is wrong with me”
When the narcissist secures, or are in the process of securing a new supply, you are only getting in their way and they don’t want to waste any more of their time on what they see as a “former relationship”.
You started enforcing your boundaries You started pushing back on all of their devaluations The narcissist just got bored with you and wants the excitement they think that they can get from someone new.
We think if we can get the narcissist to understand our feelings, or point of view, they will stop their hurtful behavior. Unfortunately, the person we fell in love with doesn’t exist, and our feelings and point of view don’t matter to them.
Even though we know deep down we don’t matter to the narcissist, we deny it. We want badly for things to improve and work out, because it was great in the beginning. We think the person in the beginning of the relationship we fell in love with will return if we are just patient.
Red Flags are moments of hesitation that determine our destination...
If something on the inside is telling you that someone isn't right for you, they're NOT right for you, no matter how great they might look on paper. When it's right for you, you will know. And when it's not it's time to go.
Looking back, knowing what you know now, what was the first RED FLAG in behavior that you experienced from the narcissist?
You don’t know pain until you’re staring at yourself in the mirror with tears streaming down your face and you’re begging yourself to just hold on and be strong. That is pain…
Wait? Whaat? 🧐 Sweetie, you just disagreed then agreed with me all in one reply lol. But I still love you! So how about we just agree you should not try to destroy the narcissist and just go no contact and move on. Game Over!
Wait? Whaat? 🧐 Sweetie, you just disagreed then agreed with me all in one reply lol. But I still love you! So how about we just agree you should not try to destroy the narcissist and just go no contact and move on. Game Over!
For those replying to my tweets with Borderline Personality Disorder. I am so loving your replies! Lol A relationship between a NPD and BPD is a total nightmare and destined to be destroyed...
You will get angry, you will want to lash out and hurt them just as much or more as they have hurt you so they can “feel" what you “feel”. But here’s the thing. No matter what you do, the narcissist will NEVER feel what you feel, they just can't!
It's unbelievable, unfathomable, what the narcissist did to you. Realize the truth and accept that it really did happen. You didn't imagine or read it wrong. This really did happen to you. 😞...
It's a painful reality to accept that you've been duped, used, betrayed, lied to, cheated on, stolen from and dumped, so horrendously by a person you allowed yourself to love so completely and who made you believe they loved you back in the same measure.
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Poison 🥴
Narcissistic Abuse is like a disease that consumes every part of you; you feel permanently poisoned.
@dreaveler @AfterTheNarc When a narc claim to have ADHD - to ”justify” their behavior - & no doctor has given the diagnosis. You buy into this explanation & it takes longer time to discover it’s all about narcissism.
@AfterTheNarc I’m the 3rd wife. After almost 4 years we’re divorced after 17 years together. He just ended a 4 year relationship and is onto his next. Funny thing is though, I first started seeing her on our community singles group. Onto the next !
@AfterTheNarc @TracyCampanell No but I wish I could!
@AfterTheNarc @TracyCampanell Yes!! It gave me so much closure. She was the bookend—where he was a final chapter.
Support and love will never be appreciated in short by a narc. Everyone is just a piece of shit they just play around like toys.
You can't compete with the narcissist, even if you could, do you really want to deplete your bank account, just to be treated like shit? They will take every penny you have, leave you homeless, laying on the streets, while they are sleeping in someone else's warm comfortable bed.
@AfterTheNarc The #narcissist monster told me that he had "low self esteem". Twenty five years ago it made me feel sorry for him and believe that I could help and support him. I always think that he must have been diagnosed with something to use that term.
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So true.
Coincidence means only a connection that's not seen. Roots meet underground... 🖤 #NarcissisticAbuse
@AfterTheNarc Oh yes! All of the above! And he said he was different to most people. He was definitely that!!
@nel0282 @AfterTheNarc Sorry to hear you went through that. Never easy, whichever side of the fence you’re on...
@StaceMcGuinness this!!!!!!
We think if we can get the narcissist to understand our feelings, or point of view, they will stop their hurtful behavior. Unfortunately, the person we fell in love with doesn’t exist, and our feelings and point of view don’t matter to them.
@AfterTheNarc Nope. They we're the opposite, had to pry it out.
Have you ever had the opportunity to speak to the narcissist’s ex, the victim who came before you or after you and compared your stories to one another of the abuse endured by the narcissist?
@AfterTheNarc He said she was an alcoholic and gave up on life and basically made him miserable as he tried to get her back on her feet and she wouldn’t even try. And look that might have been true, but I can bet you $100 who made her that way....
@AfterTheNarc Mine talked sh*t about his ex. Smear campaign! I didn’t know it at the time though.
@AfterTheNarc Yeah, she got in contact with me to ask me what I had gone through. To be fair I got off lightly compared to Jane, she got it so much worse as she had children which were also caught up in it.
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