Being mean is so WEIRD to me. I genuinely don't get any pleasure from embarrassing, belittling, or just overall hurting people's feelings. Something wrong with some of y'all spirits fr. You gotta be in a very dark place to feel good by making people feel bad.
@prettygirll4L Yes I thought the same. What do you gain mistreating others is what I ask. I've been a victim of bullying, I don't want to hurt other people at all.
@prettygirll4L A lot of people who are narcissists are like this ... They get a kick out of hurting people. Especially good people. Both my parents are this way. A lot of men are like this too, unfortunately.
Take 2: was going to scroll past this but I was thinking about this the other day: I don’t get why some people proactively seek to hurt other people for no apparent reason. that said, there are also people whose feelings get hurt by statements of fact or other observable and empirical realities. and there are also people who start or cause problems then say that their “feelings are hurt” when those impacted by the problem(s) that they caused respond commensurately (I have zero empathy for these people).
@prettygirll4L Shine bright, don't dim someone else's light!