I keep my distance from people who don’t recognise a pattern within themselves, and how it negatively impacts their connections. it doesn’t matter if they say they are working on it, only their actions are evidence of true change to me. otherwise cycles just continue with them.
I believe in patience and compassion, but I’m also a human being who does find it emotionally draining to keep having the same conversations
@ninagrewal97 Do you tell them that the conversations drain you? Or do you distance yourself without a reason?
@ninagrewal97 I completely agree with you. Unfortunately, I feel like I have been on the other end, towards my friends. I suffer from depression and anxiety. While I am actively seeking therapy for this, I still find it really difficult, to even just talk. (1)
@ninagrewal97 years to maintain your patience is req and only be done when surrounded by right people
@ninagrewal97 it's so exahausting to have the same conversation again and again specially when u know it's not even worth talking, just negativity tiring my mind my body.