Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
@lowkeyalbert I genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you. I believe they treat you based on the state of mind they're in. Some people unintentionally hurt you because they are at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.
@lowkeyalbert Some people only hit you up when it’s beneficial for them. Stay away from people like that
@lowkeyalbert unfortunately some people will be far more manipulative and play a long game wherein they show mutual respect, and slowly gain this expectation of your charity, understanding, and even monetary help, and each time you get angry or talk it out, they will flip it and you will flip.
@lowkeyalbert Exactly! You control what type of day you'll have
@lowkeyalbert This is one thing I still struggle with. Hopefully, in the nearest future, I would be able to treat people just the way they treat me, reciprocate their energy so that I don't get hurt.
@lowkeyalbert Some people, like myself, struggle with this because of being neurodivergent. It's not that we want to, it's just something that happens.
@lowkeyalbert You cannot expect to live a positive life if you hang with negative people.
@lowkeyalbert Best way is not that but pray for life to.prove them that what they do is wrong !
@lowkeyalbert You are right but it so hard for me to not overthink
@lowkeyalbert Sometimes heartfelt stranger, someone might not know what to say or they give someone the space to explore their soul. Love, sometimes just goes away for a little while and knows it will find it's way. Somewhere.