@lovewins11011 Don't forget the self hate for letting it happen.
@lovewins11011 Do you have a list on the 7 steps of a narc breakup.
@lovewins11011 Still angry mostly cause he had me sign off on my survivor benefits so when he dies I won’t get anymore military retirement money. His gf now wife was there visiting him 6 weeks prior. He knew we’d eventually divorce, I had no clue . Thought I was doing what’s best for everyone.
@lovewins11011 I’m still more in the “sad” mode. Mostly because I was “not allowed” to be angry for 30 years. My therapist is actually working with me on that. I don’t know man, y’all might want to hang on to your eclipse viewing glasses for the day I actually turn that corner 😡😡😡
@lovewins11011 And the sadness and disappointment in yourself for wishing you had the strength to have spoken up sooner. 💔