Dating someone with emotional intelligence is very important. Imagine struggling with something and meeting your partner and all he/she has to say is “hmm it’s well”.
If there are issues within a particular relationship of which is desired, then it is certainly a linguistic issue. That is, there is an interference located at some point between the two in question. Whatever is meant to be conveyed is not arriving at its destination, properly. The interference could be located at the producer or the consumer of the said information, or both. Each one of these cases are equally likely. If the problem is located on behalf of the producer, then it means they lack the ability to articulate themselves in a manner that is receptive and proper. If the problem is located on behalf of the consumer, then it means that they lack the necessary processing skills to interpret the message accurately. However, in any case, the only way to have a productive and effective conversation is that both, the producer and the consumer, must be willing to not only execute their role as effectively as possible, but also assist the other in their respective duties. That is, the producer must produce in a way that considers the nature of the consumer, and the consumer must consume in a way that considers the nature of the producer. Each of these are difficult tasks, but necessary.
@feyiszn I really can't stand this I was once there and I know how it feels really.
@feyiszn Like is so annoying when someone is saying something important and your lack of knowledge can't contribute anything.. what a waste
@feyiszn Had an ex who would do this and still go ahead to say "what do you have for me?"
@feyiszn if it happens 3 times, the relationship is very much over
@feyiszn Then there's the "Eish that's wild" type. 😭😭😭