Complaining is one thing people apparently love. But I personally think that we can change a lot about the things we complain about. For example, people often complain about what we do not get, or about what others do not do for us. Can you say with 100% certainty that you have done everything you can to change the things you are complaining about? We often complain but do not consider our own input. Me too, it's a human thing apparently. Nowadays I think about it more and before I complain I try to find out what I can do about it. Have I really done everything myself to change a certain situation ? And believe me, I realize that I didn't always do that. Before you complain, try to analyze the situation and recognize your part in it. Placing the blame on others is just a little too easy. Others may indeed treat you wrong in some cases. But you still have a share in how you respond to it. So think before you complain. Complaining doesn't solve anything and costs you energy that you should better use in a positive way to do something about it. #Complaining #ActSelfBeforeComplainkng #PositiveThinking #ThinkPossibilities #SelfKnowledge #JustSaying ♥️🌹💋 Alice,
@Alice470971338 I think self reflection is a serious case of non existing for many... whether mistreated or not I mean. It doesn´t have to involve someone else. Widen the world a bit and try to get more input than from your own angle alone.
@eyescream262 Absolutely correct, self-reflection and self-knowledge is enriching for yourself and your environment. You will also have more peace in your mind and life.
@Alice470971338 That and forgiveness... not because people deserve it, but more of putting closure to something and move on... grudges are not healthy.
@eyescream262 Oh yes it's good to forgive people, as you say you can give it a place and move on. Don't let negativity, negative experiences or negative people control your life.
@Alice470971338 Right... everyone you meet and all you do is shaping you to what you become, a fabulous being. Find the things in life that makes you feel good, gives energy and nurture your creativity... Oh my, we are wise 😆
@eyescream262 😁 Yes we are. Only its not always easy to do what we preach but at least we try.
@Alice470971338 Usually I don´t 😃 But once in a while I might throw out an advice or such.