I think a big problem in the queer community is that a lot of you are actually way more closed minded than you realize. You claim to break the rules of gender but attack those who break the rules in a way that's too "weird." You claim to be accepting and loving until...
someone's identity is too "strange" or complex. You refuse to learn the rich and deep history of your own community. You see something that's out of the norm and immediately resort to hatred and bigotry. You all are no better than the homophobes you claim to hate so much.
@everyponie My own queer identity is very basic, I don't make it my personality, but I acknowledge the community. As someone from far-right lineage, I have the instinct to disagree with jock straps or boob tape in parades with children watching, and I think sexuality should be more intimate-
@everyponie In 2022 or so I was REALLY against xenopronous and neopronouns, even as a trans guy myself. Despite that I always respected them and so came to accept them. Now I just think they're fun, fuck the "made up" argument. Hell, OUR ENTIRE LANGUAGE IS MADE UP! Let them have their fun🤷
@everyponie @misspoofles Have a a friend I am very close to that denies he's homophobic. He is, but a little, says he hates the super flamboyant gays, used 'gay' as derogatory/negative on a trip until I pestered him to stop, then tried to claim that being t-phobic didn't count. And I was like hun!!!
@everyponie I heart being an mspec gay nonbinary man 🫶
@everyponie We definitely have a social conservative problem within our gay and queer spaces but nobody’s ready for that conversation
@everyponie yes! We break the rules not to make new ones
@everyponie I honestly don't have a problem with anyone's gender or sexuality until it's zoophila related or pedophilic related.