Trauma survivors may have trouble connecting with others in the way they desire. We tend to prefer deeper, more meaningful relationships and avoid the small talk. We don't need any more fake or shallow people in our lives. We've had enough of that.
@alotusblooms True but sometimes that small talk is bricks for the road to more open and meaningful conversations. Please try to look at it that way
@alotusblooms Truth! I’m struggling w my sibling family get-togethers cause they’re all “fluff”. My trauma, in part, was caused by their emotional avoidance. But we sure hug, kiss and laugh together like we’re one big happy family. Crazy-making :(
@alotusblooms At this point honesty is plenty. I'm too tired to get deep with anyone but my significant other
@alotusblooms @R3K4B Very true and I agree with you. May the God almighty send his own people of honest and trustworthy to us in this end time in Jesus name