Imagine a good man who wakes up to go work this hard for his family leaving home without a decent breakfast because “career wifey” is rushing to work only to get there in time to serve her “boss” breakfast. Our generation of men has settled for less indeed. Why should a man leave home without a good breakfast?? Our moms were very happy people and well taught. They knew how to care of their husbands. They would never let their men go to work without a good breakfast. With a serious career, they wud rise up early, make eggs, add katogo and coffee for hubby. They were taught that a man who’s well taken care of, will work hard to provide for the family. They were taught: That u can’t ask money in the evening from a man who u didn’t give breakfast in the morning. Our daughters must pick lessons from these elders and learn to prioritize. No man should ever have to go to work without a decent breakfast prepared at his home. A man is the first boss!!
1. The sad thing in our generation is there are many households where the woman is the bread winner. Now with this information in mind the syllabus has to be updated. 2. I do think there are fewer “career women” that don’t make breakfast for their husbands. I could be wrong. But many I know have breakfast with their husbands before leaving, those that leave earlier often have it prepared before they leave. 3. From point 2 I know you might be inclined to ask why would the wife leave before the husband? I guess if the husband is okay with it, why not. We can’t judge from the outside. 4. I think your message is good when you look at it from one angle. As a man if you want want breakfast, marry a woman you feel will make you breakfast. If in all your time you were dating the woman she never made you breakfast, and you are the breakfast guy, well do t marry her. If you found a woman in love with her career, and you clearly don’t like it, don’t marry her. I think the expectations are too high. As much as a woman should adjust in marriage, so is the man. If your career wife has a really important work meeting in the morning and she rushes without making you breakfast, you shouldn’t be so aggrieved. There are human afterall.
@WaiswaK @GODFREY_Kutesa Don’t talk about knowing someone’s character during courtship. As long as they like you, they can do anything.
@WaiswaK @GODFREY_Kutesa @WaiswaK You're a wise man. Nowonder you come from the east.
@WaiswaK @GODFREY_Kutesa See wisdom 🙌 well put and explained. it's all about teamwork👌
@WaiswaK @GODFREY_Kutesa You see, it appears as though those are high expectations but one thing we don't realize is that, neglecting such small duties leads to neglect of bigger duties. Before you realize it, she won't be in position to make for you dinner and such lead to horrible marriages.