Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. It comes in waves. Sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
@ThirdEyeMastery Be patient with yourself. Be patient with the ways you need to process trauma, and with the ways you experience anxiety, and be patient with the ways you feel you fall short of your potential. We're all human. We all have lessons to walk through, and it's ok if you're struggling.
@ThirdEyeMastery "your trauma made u stronger". no, my trauma made me traumatized. it made me weak, it gave me memory loss, and it gave me feelings i've never wanted. i made myself stronger.
@ThirdEyeMastery .....cause you sit back and remember how you didnt deserve all that evil
@ThirdEyeMastery That is why at that stage of healing, you ask God to replace the rage you feel with love in your heart.
@ThirdEyeMastery Someone you trusted taking advantage of you is the worst feeling ever. But it's important to remember that you should forget them eventually and move on with your life. Awful people win in the end if you're still thinking about them. So don't, be happy without them
@ThirdEyeMastery I just remind myself that it “was that” but isn’t anymore. Continuing to let them go through the process of removing those negative emotions and memories. The anger was necessary in me even removing the guilt i felt because i couldn’t escape the “i deserved it” for a while.
@ThirdEyeMastery @Themomofeight Good point. The deception typically starts when you're a child; and then you grow into adulthood living a lie. I rather live a moment of anger, than to stay in a stupor...
It's important to acknowledge and work through these emotions as they are a natural response to realizing how much you may have been hurt or taken advantage of. It's important to give yourself the space and time to process these feelings in order to move forward in a healthy way.
@ThirdEyeMastery We're told forgiveness is the goal. Sometimes, rage IS the healed state. Not about revenge, but refusing to downplay what happened. That anger can fuel boundaries, protect you from the same harm in the future.
@ThirdEyeMastery When the encounter is tumultuous, expect the healing process to be tumultuous as well.