Grieve the parent you wanted and didn’t get. Recognize your life is full of opportunity and you need no one’s permission. Let go of getting approval from people who don’t approve of themselves. Forgive yourself every day.
@Theholisticpsyc This has tickled the part of my brain where my deepest freedom-inducing scenarios live rent free
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@Theholisticpsyc Accept your journey, release expectations, seek inner validation, and practice forgiveness daily.
'Grieve the parent you wanted and didn’t get.' This is vital.☝️ I wished from my earliest memories that both my parents were different. More loving, more kind, interested & invested in me, protective & supportive etc... Those deep wishes stole my energy, focus and created pain. I had to finally accept the cards the universe dealt me & let go of the belief that one day I'd have the family I so desperately yearned for. Wanting that wish so badly to become reality made me develop relationships where I wanted them to change so badly. I would stay, miserable, hope things would eventually change & get better, yet it always remained the same. If only they could be -- insert qualities & characteristics they didn't possess-- we'd be happy, things would be great, if only. Yearning for more, for different, for better as a kid.... I developed into an adult who yearned for better people yet stayed when all the evidence was showing me, all the good was in my head & I was yearning for a fantasy of the person, not the reality of them. I had to work on living in reality, accepting people exactly as they are and if I felt that familiar urge to change them, that was my sign to leave. I had to grieve that fantasies & patterns created as a child that helped me cope then with a sad reality but was wrecking havoc in my adult now. 💜
@Theholisticpsyc I love this thank you so much. We also should try to forgive our parents for the childhood they were supposed to give us but didn’t. They did the best they could.
@Theholisticpsyc Forgive your parents Forgive yourself Forgive others🕯️☮️🙏
@Theholisticpsyc Release the shackles of seeking approval from those who themselves stumble in the dark. Their opinions are mere whispers against the symphony of your potential.
@Theholisticpsyc Why not heal the Parent instead as they themselves had no clue possibly Parenting should be education but most have no clue how to be Parent
@Theholisticpsyc Yes! You approve of yourself.