The partner we choose has a profound impact on every aspect of our lives. To find partner whose a match for the life we're seeking, we need to understand our relationship values. A THREAD🧵
Relationship values are things that are meaningful, fulfilling, and important within our relationships. Many of us don't know what our relationships values are, because we've been sold a "fairy tale" version of love.
Where things just work out with the right person. This only leads us to resentment and disappointment because it's an unrealistic expectation.
Creating a life with someone means: doing intentional inner work, open communication, and mutual self discovery on a regular basis.
Things to understand with relationship values: 1. Everyone has different relationship values that are unique to them. ex: spending a lot of time together might be a high value need of yours, while another person might value lots of space, or alone time.