She’s right, and this information is valuable. A woman loses interest when she no longer finds you attractive and inside of a relationship that primarily happens after multiple ignored attempts at telling you what she needs from you.
This isn’t about a good morning text, it’s about a man recognizing and acknowledging her needs, agreeing to fulfill them, then failing to do so which forces her to keep reminding him and every time he says he’ll do it, he doesn’t. If he believes her needs are unreasonable then talk about it, make it a discussion, reach a different solution, don’t agree and then abandon.
Bros: The only way to get through this is to ask for something back thats even more work. "Ofc babe. I love you. Also. It would make me feel like you love me if .... right when you woke up you did a math problem every day, and you sent it to me, showing your work. What? Babe! Why not? That makes me really sad 🥲. If you don't do it, it means you do not care enough about me, and this is true because I just made that up."
@TheEcho13 I have repeatedly stated to men in marriage workshops and counseling; You believe that you re to love your wife, that is NOT nearly enough, Your job is to make her FEEL loved. They are not the same, because you are not the same.
@TheEcho13 @SansinnaOcs I'm confused by this so even If the bf in the scenario has good reasons for failing these small things it doesn't matter because her wants were not met? And at what point would she ask why these things aren't being met? E.g getting up at much different times.
@TheEcho13 This is why one of the most powerful and impactful questions a man can ask when she’s flooded is “what do you need?”