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Iâm 26, single, and living alone in a mini-flat in Ipaja.
Last year I interviewed for a âContent Leadâ role in Ikoyi at âŚ300k. After four rounds, the HR said in the final chat: âYouâre our pick. You can resume Dec 4th.â
That same week, I resigned from my âŚ160k job and bought a new blazer for the role. On Dec 1st: âHi, weâve paused hiring till Q2. Apologies.â
Just like thatâno job. Rent was due Jan 2nd, and I had âŚ62k saved. Oh Lord, what do I do? How will I survive?
I kept applying nonstopâfour interviews a week, all virtual and data-draining. One HR ghosted me after I spent two hours on their unpaid test project. Another said, âYouâre great but we need someone with agency experience,â even though the job post said entry-level.
What broke me wasnât the money. It was the silence. Iâd wake up, send 10 applications, then sit in my room till night. My phone became my enemy. Every notification made my heart jump, then drop when it was just MTN. I stopped replying to friends because âWhat are you doing now?â felt like judgment.
Christmas came. I told everyone I was working from home. I ate Indomie and eggs alone on Dec 25th while watching people post family photos. I wasnât hungryâI was invisible.
I started doubting everything: Am I dumb? Do I smell in interviews? Should I just marry someone? Rejection became my daily routine.
On Jan 3rd, an old freelance client DMâd: âYou still write? I need someone. âŚ250k per month.â No interview. Just âSend account. A colleague of mine would be needing your service as well. I already told her about you but I wanted to confirm from you first.â
And thatâs how I got my life back.
Job hunting as a single lady in Lagos isnât just rejection emails. Itâs calculating if you can afford to stay safe while broke. Job loss isnât just financesâitâs your self-worth evaporating in real time.
No one tells you âYouâre still smartâ after the 20th âWe regretâ email. You have to be your own cheerleader when you donât even believe in yourself.
Lessons learned: Never resign without a signed contract and first salary date. Verbal offers are lies. Being a single young lady means some men will test youâif the job needs dinner, itâs not a job. Lastly, your emergency fund is your dignity. Even âŚ50k saved stops you from saying yes to trash.
Iâm okay now. But I donât wish that quiet loneliness on anyone.
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