A great thing about being two Autistic people in a relationship is being able to engage in parallel play and have it totally count as quality time spent together. You've got your person doing their thing while you do yours. Bliss. Simply bliss.
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@RamonaQuaxli Hi @actual_clara I love you and I love doing this and or helping you work because it’s quality time and I enjoy being near you ✨
@RamonaQuaxli Afaik my husband isn't autistic but we still have this vibe!
@RamonaQuaxli I seriously wish more people understood this and connected with the joy of it. I’ve had SO many contentious conversations stemming from me feeling so fulfilled by parallel play only to find out they decided it “didn’t count” and I was “neglectful”.