@PhilOfLife_ While being kind and compassionate is generally a positive trait, it's important to maintain healthy boundaries and prioritize self-care.
@PhilOfLife_ It breaks us because we expect that same level of kindness in return That’s unrealistic in this world Use selfishness as a virtue while treating everyone with respect
@PhilOfLife_ Absolutely true. Being “nice” is an invitation to be a doormat. Choose to be kind, but have standards on how you’re treated. Don’t tolerate anything below your standards.
@PhilOfLife_ When you're being too nice to thers, you're not being nice to the most important person in your life - you It most often stems from your belief system You believe that only the others are worthy of you being nice to them And that you are not worthy of the same
@PhilOfLife_ You get taken advantage pretty quickly. Got to create firmer boundaries.
@PhilOfLife_ You can be nice and still enforce boundaries.
@PhilOfLife_ Learn to say "no" and protect your own well-being.