My eldest sibling got married when I was in grade 3. She and her man asked for me from our parents and I was basically their first child. During school term I would be at the boarding house (Yes, I was at a boarding house in primary school😭) Then during school holidays -
I would be by my sis and sbali. I witnessed some of the best loving I had ever seen in my life. 😫 That man loved my sister AND I like we were all he had. He took so much care of me and showered me with love that I didn't know what to do with it.🥹
He was so calm, soft spoken, kind, sweet and caring. He never raised his voice. He never said a harsh word. He was so assuring and respectful.😮💨 He called me "Sbali" but treated me like his son. 😇Till this day, I have never witnessed a person love their partner like that man.
Never witnessed a total stranger love a brother in law like he did. Fast forward to my adult life, that's exactly the kind of guys I'm attracted to. If you see me giving a man attention, dating him or spending time with him, know that these qualities check.✅ I seek him in them.
The purpose of my thread was to honour yet another incredible man who possesses the qualities I learnt a man should have, from my brother in law. I was simply sharing that my taste in who I like is influenced positively by a monumental male figure in my life.❤️
The purpose of my thread was to honour yet another incredible man who possesses the qualities I learnt a man should have, from my brother in law. I was simply sharing that my taste in who I like is influenced positively by a monumental male figure in my life.❤️
@Mqoqindlela So it made you...uhm... okay
@Mqoqindlela A low key tweet, leave your brother in-law out of your gaying self. Haaibo!
@Mqoqindlela I was ready 2 propose to u... because I think you understand family dynamic which I stand 4... bt goodluck.. may u find a love that fills u and goes beyond your norm.. may you enrich others the same... loved reading thus
@Mqoqindlela This highlights the importance of having relationship role models to help us emulate the kind of behavior and seek it in others that encompasses all those good qualities.
@Mqoqindlela All that happend for you to end up a gay nigga?
@Mqoqindlela Wait let me get this straight you be gay?