Telling a narcissistic abuse survivor that your cousin’s uncle’s brother used to be a narcissist but ‘got help’ and is ‘better’ now is the least helpful thing to say. Abuse survivors don’t need false hope. Reality is the majority of narcissists, stay narcissists. Their shitty behavior works for them so they won’t change. Instead, use your energy to expose narcissistic abusers and support their victims.
@lovewins11011 Daughter is convinced her dad is better now - what she doesn’t realize is that he’s better at hiding it in front of her.
@And_SoSheDid @lovewins11011 You are not alone, friend. My dad was a narcissist and abuser. And also an alcoholic. I hope you and your child heal from this. I wish you all the love and healing in the world. Sometimes the best option is just to walk away. #survivor #cPTSD
@MadamReddRaven @lovewins11011 I did - 8 years ago. Best decision I ever made. My daughter is doing well but my son may never recover from the damage my ex has done.