have u ever tried to forgive someone ? but no matter what , that trauma sticks w you ? no matter how many days , weeks , months , or years that goes by . no matter how much u love them … no matter how hard u try .. the sht just loves rent free in yo head ? that’s how yk a situation scarred tf outta u . cuz forgiveness is key but sometimes it’s hard to forgive when all u wanna know , is why would this person cause hurt to u !
@Jameca2011 Girlllllll!!!! Why have I been going through this for over a year now!!!! Ugggg but what is the solution tho?
forgiveness a labyrinth, with its paths winding closely around the heart's deepest wounds to forgive is not to forget; the shadows of pain can linger long in the corridors of thought is a journey that tests the soul, as one grapples with the echoes of hurt that refuse silence the struggle to release the grip of past scars is a testament to the complexity of healing, a delicate dance between the desire for peace and the gravity of memory
In my opinion forgiveness is often painted as this magical solution that brings instant peace, but the truth is, it's far more complex, especially when the hurt is profound. Trauma has this insidious way of embedding itself deep within our psyche. We try to let go, to move forward, but it clings to us, like a persistent shadow from the past. It's not just about the act of forgiving; it's about grappling with the aftermath, the emotional scars that linger long after the event. When you're deeply hurt, especially by someone you love, it's like your entire world gets turned upside down. It's not just the immediate pain of the incident; it's the shattered trust, the broken expectations that really take a toll. And that haunting question of 'why' keeps echoing in your mind, keeping the wound painfully fresh. But forgiveness is indeed not a one-time event; it's a journey, often a long and winding one. Sometimes, it's not just about forgiving the other person, but also about forgiving yourself for still feeling the pain, for not being able to simply 'get over it.' It's perfectly okay to accept that some scars are a part of who you are now. They don't define you, but they have undoubtedly played a role in shaping you. It's important to remember that healing isn't a straight path, and the same goes for forgiveness. It's a process, and it's absolutely okay to take the time you need. The most important thing is that you're making an effort, you're moving forward, even if it's in small, gradual steps. Your journey towards healing and forgiveness is uniquely yours, and it's okay to navigate it at your own pace!!!!
@Jameca2011 Forgiveness and letting go are good in theory but in reality, they're much harder.
@Jameca2011 You can forgive and not forget. It is the not forgetting that teaches the lesson to never revisit that route again. Many say, “how can you forgive, and not forget,”…easy.
@Jameca2011 Current situation, it’s the most painful thing I ever been through and I can’t stop thinking about it. I thought this man really truly loved me.
@Jameca2011 I don’t have problem forgiving people. I do it for my own peace of mind. The only problem I have is when people think they can waltz back into my life and we will pick up from wherever just because I’ve forgiven them. Please don’t do that. Just stay away.