You only want help, if you are helping yourself first. That is what kills me about this topic. You can't help someone that isn't helping themselves. If they ain't, and you help them, you have wasted valuable help. It's just as simple as it is complicated, but its not as complicated as most make it for themselves.
@ImGraysonRogers Everyone can get help regardless of whether they want it or not. The real point is you can only GET THE BENEFITS of help if you want help.
@ImGraysonRogers There is nothing more frustrating than a person who asks for help but brushes off the help you try to give them.