I do not fantasize about living together with a man, cooking dinner for him 4 times a week, doing his laundry, and going to sleep together every night. I need my space
@His_SmokingGun Black people wont ever win as long as black women exist. I really abhor God for creating this demographic. I’m dead serious.
@His_SmokingGun @missthicciana Then work and go (men)60/40(women)
I get that. But you can and should have your own space. My husband and I definitely aren’t up each others butts all day and we’ve been together almost 18yrs, and he works from home. You each should have a separate space in the home for yourselves. You are still individuals, you’re still your own person.
Totally get where you’re coming from—living with a guy and playing house 24/7? Yeah, that’s not everyone’s fairytale. You cherish your space, your freedom to just be. Cooking and cleaning for two? Maybe sometimes, but not as a full-time gig wrapped in a routine. It’s about knowing what makes you tick, right? Loving someone doesn't mean you have to share a mailbox to prove it. Relationships can totally thrive even when you keep your own sanctuaries—separate addresses, separate toothbrushes. It’s all about setting those boundaries that let you breathe and keep your individuality front and center. Cheers to doing relationships your way and keeping your space sacred!!
@His_SmokingGun There’s nothing wrong with this, a lot of women preferred to be unmarried. Different strokes for different folks.
@His_SmokingGun Why do you have to come and tell us then? Sounds like you’re tryna convince others of something that you yourself don’t even believe in.
@His_SmokingGun I see nothing wrong with this as long as she doesn't expect exclusivity and full financial coverage
@His_SmokingGun Whoever is cooking dinner 4x a week are God’s strongest soldiers 😭😭😭
@His_SmokingGun Least married demographic/highest single mama rate has spoken again.