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@Lola_Davina My favorite advice is that if you don't know what to say, ask the person how you can help them. Not "do you need help?" but "what can I do to help you?"
@Codi_Vore @Lola_Davina I can't believe I never thought of this, I've always asked "what can I do to help?" and found "do you need help?" absolutely crushing but I never actually consciously thought about it despite this idea having shaped my behavior
@Codi_Vore @Lola_Davina It's amazing how a simple change of words changes the whole feel of the question huh?