Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

I am Supernatural Joined April 2010

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Max The Airbnb Guy🏡Best Shortlets @Maxtheairbnbguy

a month ago

A lack of boundaries will make you cheat. You are in a relationship. Yet you are exchanging contacts at the gym. You are exchanging contacts at the sports club. You are exchanging contacts at your workplace. The funny thing is, you know that the person on the other side is not just interested in business or work or just being friends alone, but you feel you're in control, and then you start chatting. Then come the jokes. The laughter. The late night messages that make you smile. These are human emotions. You start enjoying their conversations. You start looking forward to them. This is where it all begins. People think cheating is just a one‑night stand alone or a sudden slip. That is not true. Cheating is a buildup. It starts small a shared laugh, a private chat, a harmless compliment. Then before you know it, you are hiding your phone. You tilt the screen away from your partner. You darken the screen when they walk near. You start keeping secrets, you start deleting messages. At that point, you cannot love two people the same way. You begin to resent your partner. You start making unfair comparisons. You tell yourself, "This new person treats me better." That is a lie. You forget all the good things your partner has done for you. You erase the 80 percent they have been doing right, and you chase the missing 20 percent an illusion. That is how cheating happens. Not from one big decision, but from a thousand small ones. A lack of boundaries opens the door. A lack of discipline walks you through it. People do not know how to be professional. They do not know how to go to the gym, see people, and let it end there. They do not know how to go to the workplace, exchange pleasantries, and let it end there. That guy at the office who always makes you laugh you keep the feelings alive. You respond to his messages, you linger after meetings, you find reasons to be near him. Feelings are like flames. The more you fan them, the more they burn. But you keep fanning. You tell yourself it is harmless. It is not. By the time you realise the fire, your boundaries are already ash. Professionalism is not just about dress codes and deadlines. It is about emotional discipline. It is about knowing where the line is and refusing to step over it even when no one is watching.

Max The Airbnb Guy🏡Best Shortlets @Maxtheairbnbguy

a month ago

The Quiet Discipline of Boundaries During my past relationships, I always kept strict boundaries and distance with the opposite sex my female friends, colleagues, or associates. I do not hang out with them. I keep my distance. My ex once asked me why I do that. I just smiled.

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Meech @MediumSizeMeech

a month ago

“You’re not a visionary, you’re a vendor” is probably one of the most devastating things you could say to someone. Miranda Priestly they could never make me hate you

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ásà nwá 🥑🤎📸 @artsyada__

a month ago

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Ramin Nasibov @RaminNasibov

2 months ago

If the devil wears Prada what do angels wear?

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cara downey @cara_downey

2 months ago

@mrhighfoster Even in this state he was talking about saving the children and being there for those in need. Murray thought he was going to catch MJ in trouble for saying something guilty even though the man wasn’t guilty. In this state he proved that he was a loving man. They murdered him 🥺

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asmogorna 🫯 || under 16 dnf @waywoodceo

3 months ago

for years now ive been itching to use "touche" in a conversation but i am yet to encounter a person who can make a better point than me

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Tegbe! @TomiwaTegbe

3 months ago

You’ve practically just answered the question yourself. You, I, and the women speaking out, very well know that not all men are rapists or bad, it goes without saying. I am not, you are not, so why are we so determined to use moments when they are expressing anger, fear, and real patterns they’ve experienced from men to exempt ourselves as if we don’t understand what they mean? If you and I are not guilty, our government names were not called, why do we feel attacked in that very moment? Why are we more concerned about exceptions the moment a norm is being rightly called out? Do we want an award for being exceptions? What does it matter to the victims, in that very moment, that you and I are exceptions when no one mentioned our names? Of what use is highlighting our “good guyness”? Is that the real issue? How is it helpful to the issue when, instead of leading with empathy and understanding, acknowledging and holding our fellows accountable, our first and loudest response is being dismissive, derailing the convo, centering and reassuring ourselves instead of the affected people? We understand what we mean when we say the Nigerian police are bad or share our horrible experiences, we know not all officers are bad. Yet in that moment, we understand that it would be dismissive and insensitive when someone, especially a police officer responds with “not all police” or claim we are exaggerating. Imagine this happening during the heat of Endsars. We understand the concept of rhetorical expressions used to highlight patterns and communicate urgency. We understand the concept of using language for social critique and pointing out systemic issues. We understand that the point is to draw attention to recurring problems or patterns, we understand all these in other issues but choose not to apply that same understanding here, why? Why is it so important to us that “some” must always be inserted when a pandemic is being highlighted? Ozoro did not happen out of nowhere, it happened because an ill has been so normalized for too long unchecked, one that persists when patterns are downplayed or dismissed and young men have been socialized to find nothing wrong with it. We must do better.

User0 @idle_mind23

3 months ago

The most tiring thing about this discourse is that both sides involved knows it's not all men. Tegbe here knows that in fact, not all men are rapists, as he himself is not a rapist. It beats me why they'd rather pretend otherwise; or what they intend to achieve.

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

3 months ago

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3 months ago

PLEASE before you offend people, prepare your mind for their choice of retaliation. You’re not the only one who’s crazy.

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emekaaaaaaaaaaaa!♕ @emeka_okoro001

3 months ago

the type of music 2face was making in 2006 cannot even be attempted by the new gen afrobeats artistes.

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jonzing. @ehisssss

3 months ago

do the work. do it well, please. let them complain about other things, but not the quality of your work.

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

4 months ago

Trying to defend nonsense will always make a monkey out of you.

Foundational Nupe Lawyer @egi_nupe

4 months ago

Empty chest beating yi nani, una no talk pass this one for MNK? Where is he today? Make Obi no pass him boundary, nothing go happen to am. But if he does, he go too feel am for body.

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

4 months ago

Chaos is a ladder…

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4 months ago

In one sentence prove that you've watched Game of Thrones:

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

4 months ago

@attah_akor Dang! Thunder fire you! 😂

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

4 months ago

Amouage Guidance 46 Strange mentions- (they are strange cos I get loads of compliments when wearing them and I don’t like em) 1. Flowerbomb by Viktor & Rolf layered with BBW Into the Night Mist and Lotion 2. Black Opium by YSL layered with BBW Into the Night Mist and Lotion

⚡︎ @_sorrengailll

4 months ago

GIRLS DON’T GATEKEEP🧚🏻‍♀️❤️‍🔥🍸 The perfume that gets you the most compliments?

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uniq @ethrealuniq

4 months ago

people with no sense of urgency are annoying.

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

4 months ago

Cardi is always on the right side of history.

Cardi B @iamcardib

4 months ago

If we talking about drugs let’s talk about Epstein and friends drugging underage girls to rape them. Why yall don’t wanna talk about the Epstein files?

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

4 months ago

Time to cop another bottle

Alluring Oud Perfume Store 🛍️✨ @Alluring_oudh

4 months ago

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Pearl @AbsolutelyPearl

4 months ago

Dang! I need to do better. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Negi💸 @NM5WRLD

4 months ago

It takes a special kind of person to live 15 minutes away from work and be late everyday.

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🌱✨ The Fault in our Gwaais ✨🌱 @AlaricPrins

4 months ago

I don’t know - maybe I’m old school, but this thing of constantly wanting to reinvent, or be unconventional at work is getting tired. It’s a job. I’m not there to be cool or edgy. Pay me my money and find your attachment, attached.