Jack Peach | Dynastic Dating @ThinkInPeach
The Dating Game is no longer Christian, but I'll teach you how to play as one. | Husband 💍| Father 👶🏼| Saved by Grace ⛪ dynasticdatingsystem.com/ChristianMansD… Find your Wife (FREE GUIDE) 👇 Joined March 2018-
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Saw a Christian dating article which argued men shouldn't focus on 'superficial' things like a woman's looks. Only her character. Please, do NOT listen to this advice. Ignoring a woman's looks does a disservice to both you AND your wife. You need character AND attraction.
How to ACTUALLY date with intention:
Bruh The average level of Christian dating advice makes Twitter platitudes seem like Proverbs.
Recorded a quick 10 min vid on a Dynastic Dater's dating profile. Made the changes. Less than 24 hours later? He had a date:
Marrying the wrong woman has catastrophic ramifications. All the more reason to dial in your dating skills -- so you can choose the right one.
Everyone wants to find love. But plenty of men don't want to date. Unfortunately one necessitates the other.
A lot of guys make simple mistakes with women. They think by acting cool women will open their hearts to them. Not true. But how can you achieve this? Well, here’s a step-by-step guide for meeting women and getting dates. 🧵THREAD🧵
You can't be a good father if you're not a good husband. And you can't become a husband without being good at dating.
Your woman needs good, feminine friendships. But she shouldn't be listening to her friends advice above yours. But before you cast judgement, first figure out if you're listening to her. Too many men hear but don't listen.
"Marriage is one long conversation." Not setting yourself up for success if you struggle to talk to women when single.
Are you a Christian man having a hard time finding a Christian woman to settle down and raise a family with? Over the past 4 years I've helped 143+ Christian men just like you to: - Meet more single, Christian women - Get consistent dates - Find relationships All with the…
Are you really trying to save her? Or are you really trying to get something from her?
After working with a couple of clients in Japan, and one who's locked into a Japanese expat community I've come to this conclusion: Japanese women suffer from steroid levels of avoidance.
The world has many fathers. But far too few dads.
"Using the system Jack has been teaching me about, I was able to get 2 dates with 2 women in one week." From a divorcee in his mid-40s. Whether you're a young professional or a middle-aged man -- my system is proven to work.
How do you get over a breakup? 1) Pray about it 2) Work on yourself 3) Restart intentionally dating Time is limited, don't waste years putting off finding someone new. Sometimes it's not until you meet someone else that you feel 'ready' to move on.
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25 Years Ago this month we met for the first time. We just took maternity pics for baby #6. I tell my wife imagine if we went back in time and told ourselves this is where we'd be. I know I wouldn't have believed it. God's been good to me.
@ThinkInPeach Where are they meeting all these wonderful women?
@ThinkInPeach Solid advice. I remember when I was a Christian and dating I would scare girls off by getting hung up on values and theology from date 1 lol
@ThinkInPeach Wow that was spot on truth!! Excellent work! I’ve been wondering what happened to society for it to feel that is alright to abuse woman! I haven’t been able wrap my head around it until reading this, 🔥🔥🔥🔥
You can EXPLAIN bad behavior without EXCUSING it. For example, a man using p*rn to escape his fears and traumas can EXPLAIN why he does it. But it doesn’t EXCUSE the fact that it is wrong and sinful.
The furor over this tweet is an example of people flipping out over a woman who is speaking in vague and emotional terms. Obviously, it's absurd to think she divorced her husband because he was "too perfect". I'm not defending or justifying her divorce, but pointing out that…
pour one out for every dude who just low key googled the Madonna Whore Complex
she also fails to protect her sanctity when she is disempowered by shame & fear. again, culprit of your own cause.
women don’t have to choose between being a respectable woman or a piece of ass. *both* is the duality of the feminine… if she’s only a piece of ass, sexuality is degenerate. if she’s only a respectable woman, she’s out of touch with her self & her creative (generative) energy.…
@ThinkInPeach Haha I’m saying it. I grew up in the church and think it is a serious problem for these guys, they take life way too seriously. It certainly affected me. I was curious your thoughts as to why.
@ThinkInPeach Thats a great testimonial. Truly changed that guys life.
@ThinkInPeach wow very great explanation Jack just reposted this for our never married dating members to read
I can verify this is true for women, and part of why I never got to marry.
Too many single Christian men make the mistake of thinking the modern dating market will bend to their will. No, it won't. You must adapt, or remain single. Only two options.
@ThinkInPeach Start making those babies. We have 4 children now. 7, 5, 2 and 8 months. Most rewarding part of my life now.
@ThinkInPeach I was all over the place until my wife and I started our family. I was successful in most categories, finance, fitness, career etc but was just “making more” all the time. More money. More muscles. More fitness. I really settled in to my true roll after we had our first child
Crying in front of his girl isn’t the real problem here. This goes much deeper She is the kind of woman you need to avoid at all costs and here’s why: She’s not disgusted by him because he cried. She’s disgusted because she can’t understand how he’s not over his best friend yet
Never cry in front of your girl For some reason, many men get mad when they hear this but it is the reality of the world She might tell you she doesn't care but she does It's a man's job to be strong and hold the family together
reminder: don't try to make someone else be more vulnerable than you have been yourself up until that point in the relationship