Kyle Gregory @KyleGregDating

Yup and girls have to for the optics management since culture and religion has deemed them low value if they ever put out The time when it becomes a skill issue on the woman's side is if she doesn't reward the guys who showcase they understand the need for subtlety and just fight any guy who tries to make moves on them period

This fact shouldn't anger men They are the ones who lead with being a soft, golden retriever, over comfort giving, provider type With zero lover boy charm mixed in So of course she will dread having sex with him She doesn't have raw primal desire for this type of husband archetype This is why the women who go overly safe mode and filter for nothing but this archetype by abandoning an interaction any time a guy at all displays lover charm She does so because she thinks that she doesn't have a chance to tame him and that all he wants is a hookup So she is setting herself up to be miserable So both sides have skill issues with this topic A woman should let chemistry flow naturally and use her feminine power to win over his heart versus being scared and running away if he has any type of lover charm Then she can get the guy who gives her lover and provider energy Meanwhile the man should stop trying to lead with being a provider Nothing wrong with providing for a woman But if that's all you bring to the table Don't be surprised when she just sees you as a walking ATM machine

Meghan Murphy @MeghanEMurphy

6 days ago

The honest truth is that a lot of married women and women in long-term relationships feel this way. I realize this will anger many men, but it’s pretty normal. I don’t know what the solution is, I just know it’s common

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@femalenatured Yup and the pleasant older ones are all married Survivorship of the worst - perpetually single ones

@MurrayHillGuy1 HR text coming for damn sure 🤣🤣

@femalenatured "I had such a fun time we will have to get together again soon" Retention masterclass This is what happens with proper after care and hanging out with her the next morning like you did And yet we have folks out there saying you need to kick girls out after hooking up lol

Lol I'm glad to see this man. All my friends and buiz partners are like shiny object syndrome with AI I hardly use AI anyways so good to know GPT is still not only sufficient but has an argument for the best one Never really had a problem with it Although i've been testing grok out more lately and im liking it

Absolutely and a lot of guys don’t realize that they can actively work to improve themselves in this area Yes, the face is genetic but a lot of what women like is your presentation also So if you’re well put together well groomed, and well styled and have a proper haircut It can do a lot to make up for things And most guys are average too which is absolutely workable Shouldn’t be this many guys struggling

I’m surprised you guys think looks are the meta Or maybe im misunderstanding Charisma/confidence/social skills >>> I struggled to get laid despite having model looks (bc I lacked confidence) and I think I told you guys about my borderline obese roommate who slayed 8.5+ left and right due to his confidence and swag (no clue how he had it) Looks are def part of the equation But its lower than a lot of men realize

@briant_bear @AcctPogo Yep this is why I’m team GLP1 because this is the #1 problem plaguing the dating market

@Bbcprojj @WifiMoneyPlant @aruvinchan The gold digger trash is the only archetype that doesn’t mind shamelessly sharing in this scenario True high quality, good women will not stand for it

@WifiMoneyPlant @aruvinchan Yes... jack from titanic is a fantastic example So is bond but i never thought about jack in this context but it's perfect Exact persona to replicate

@WifiMoneyPlant @aruvinchan Romantic maxxing and nice maxxing while maintaining your lover edge is the meta

@Lilly413657 Yes men are dumb with this too Same thing with how they say they want a plain woman and yet they go for the make up club queens like crazy

Lol Over and over again, I’ve lost count of the girls who have told me their ex was this evil narcissist And yet that was the guy that they let put a baby in her or stayed with for several years The stated preference ideal guy who’s this sweet golden retriever yes man servant is great for optics But it’s not who you give lustful primal desire to No, I’m not saying you have to be a narcissist to get Girls In fact, you can absolutely get girls by being a loving caring person But suggesting that all you gotta do to be the ideal guy is to prioritize the girls preference As if you should have no concern for your preferences Is total nonsense

Lilly Pad @Lilly413657

4 days ago

@KyleGregDating @carolineccurtis "But if your absolute ideal guy with the best energy offered drinks or coffee you would fight him on it? " The absolute ideal guy has no problem prioritising your preferences.Thinking this is a "fight" just made him wayyy less of an "ideal guy".Y assumes ur actions don't matter?

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@femalenatured LOL whenever I give them my number they never say their name That's the female cunning psychological warfare right there They know what theyre doing haha

Haha yes I do not subscribe to that belief It's red pill, arm chair philosopher BS A woman doesn't just become a slave bc she's attracted nor should that at all be the expectation With that being said... In my experience dating ACROSS THE AVG OF THE MARKET A woman who fights the date idea (unless there's a legit reason ofc for not wanting to do say drinks bc she doesn't drink alcohol) Ends up being a combative pain more often than not on other stuff too A man is supposed to lead, right? He's supposed to be the man with the plan? One of the most common funny bios I see in my time online dating is "my worst hell is having to pick the date idea" Again ... I know this isnt indicative of all women And I do NOT believe in this autistic "the man should dictate everything for the woman" nonsense that the manosphere preaches And I'm not saying that all men should only go after fully submissive fully compliant women who never help him grow or improve also... Just saying what I've observed across the market actually dating in the field And that is if she's fighting a completely reasonable coffee/drinks date Where the objective should be getting to know someone Then she often ended up being overly masculine boss babe argumentative type that doesn't let chemistry flow naturally Dont shoot the messenger

Liz Is Amused @lizisamused

5 days ago

@KyleMastery @carolineccurtis I mean... yeah. I had a guy I found super hot suggest we go for a walk & I was like nah, let's do an art fest. Then we got dinner. I'm not saying I'd never do drinks or coffee but women have preferences & they don't always disappear just because a guy's attractive. It's like

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Well that's because the dynamic is different Men are more volatile on the whole - you have to deal with potential violence, stalking, and aggression so you understandably absolutely have to optimize for quality/safety But for men, the worst they deal with from a woman is maybe some annoying behavior. Nothing compared to the worst that you would potentially deal with So that's why volume works better for men versus women There's a whole other dynamic at play that women rightfully have to be concerned with

@carolineccurtis Yeah if he insists on drinks in that scenario then that's stupid af and he would deserved to be nexted I think it's very reasonable claim to find something both want to do